Talking Therapy

Talking therapy is a generic term to describe counselling and psychotherapy where a trained counsellor or therapist listens to you in a non-judgemental way to help you find your own answers to problems.

When the therapist provides full attention and attunes to your experience, it can create the sense of being heard and understood. This process of attunement is an important aspect in child development and when it takes place in the therapeutic setting it can repair longstanding wounds, resolve unmet needs and bring to light unexpressed feelings.

One of the most powerful aspects of talking therapies is the relationship between the client and practitioner. The relationship is unlike another, as it provides a framework to explore one’s inner experience and feelings in a structured process, which may not be possible when speaking with family or friends. One can speak freely without concerns that you may be taking up space, or fears of overburdening the listener. When one can express themselves in this way it can release negative thoughts and feelings that may have been taking up space and energy internally and provide a sense of relief.

Benefits of talking therapy

Patterns & behaviour

A therapist can guide you to find unconscious and automatic coping strategies that you have adopted throughout your life and help you to learn alternative ways to live a better more fulfilling life.

Identify triggers

A therapist can help you find and manage your emotional triggers effectively, thus finding it easier to navigate difficult situations without unnecessary distress.

Self awareness

With better self awareness, you can now make conscious changes to any belief systems, behaviours, or patterns that you feel are hindering you to sustain what you would like to achieve in your life

Safe space

A therapist can provide a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental environment that can help you to face your issues in a more open and available way.

Values

A therapist can help you to start to identify your own unique and true values, thus feeling more confident as a unique individual.

Alternative perspectives

Therapy can help reveal core beliefs about your own identity, thus exploring how these beliefs might be dictating behaviours, emotions, and thought processes.

"In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth"

Carl R. Rogers
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